The reason that looks good

Its sad to note and understand why someone in there right mind would go to a shop and offer to buy things for every body in the shop when there money would be best used elsewhere. Many people are poor in Malawi and to think that by offering to buy things for a selected few one is showing good faith is a joke. Surely there are orphans, the sick in hospitals and the many needy in Malawi. If you really are serious of ruling again you have to do better than that. I have no idea where my fellow Malawians get their advise from. Times are changing and if you cant change with the times man it will all fall apart. Its about time people realise that Malawians are moving on,gone are the days when one would bribe people with there money without offering substance.
It does not need a politician to tell you how to win peoples mind, the key is to truly love people. Like they say there are two reasons for doing thing " the one that looks good and the real reason" always appeal to the nobler motive.

Jealousy Is Like Cancer

Jealousy men and women is like cancer it eats you away piece by piece. If you are very jealousy i suggest you read a few words of wisdom from i and i Big will. Jealousy is useless If someone is gonna cheat they will anyway there is nothing you can do might as well not bother. Visited a relative the other day noticed the wife's phone was redirected to the husbands phone. Later that night there was a big fight between my relatives the husband and the wife If i did not step in they would have killed each other. Turns out the husband who happens to call himself a player and boy does he shag women, was suspecting that the wife was having an affair to the point of following the wife to work. According to the husband he saw the wife with another dude acting suspiciously and according to the wife that was a male colleague she used to work with and happen to be a friend. Who is wrong or right is beyond the scope of this post. The fact that pissed me most is the domestic violence displayed on this occasion. I hate domestic violence with a passion. To think of it this guy cheats all the time and gets caught all the time and expects to be forgiven. He say's he is a man and he is allowed but i disagree. Yet his wife was suspected to be cheating and he went ballistic loosing it, moving out of the house. I had to talk some sense into him to come back to his wife and children. Why oh why indeed why! all this jealousy brings nothing but misery before you start getting jealousy revive your relationship so that you reduce the likely hood of your partner cheating on you. Relationships should be competitive one should make it worthwhile for the other party to still be in the relationship. If you must cheat make sure they are better than your partner and never get caught. What one does not know does not hurt. In this day and age a woman or man cheating is just as bad or good depending on the way you look at it. Read the signs and do something before its too late.

Love and Marriage

Indeed love hurts, how many people have ever been in love? Love is a general word which i think passes through alot of peoples lips subconsciously. Saying It without actually meaning it, then there is true love uumm now this I think exit between one and their parents or one and their kids. I can not include among siblings because i have witnessed some sibling rivalry way out of control. To say a man and woman who were strangers can meet and form true love then i think it is pure fantasy just like father Christmas. Why? because love is conditional be it direct or indirect. The conditions are different from how much money you have, charisma, looks, status in the society, how good a father you are, manners be it good or bad etc... You might disagree but think about it before you and your partner got together there must be boxes both of you had to tick, you know minimum conditions. Another interesting thing is about these words {having something in common}. Can not stand these words because they remind me of back in the days when i used to be so shy, naive, clueless as far as women were concerned. These words were a stumbling block to my quest for the ladies. Girls used to say we have nothing in common bla bla bla.Then i remembered a lesson in physics not that i was good at it. That say opposites forces attract, that revolutionised my life. Most relationships that claim to have similar taste then it means one of them is pretending just to please the other or subconsciously following the other. That's why there are so many divorces out there because most people as life goes on gather up the courage to realise or rather admit they are different. This realisation or admission rocks the foundation upon which their marriages were bound. some relationship are rocked so hard they collapse others try to work it out through Marriage counselors. Compromise is what is needed. If you have the foresight to look and identify your differences and agree on compromises way before, One will not need to go through all the hustle.

Mugabe

I think time has come for the old man from Zimbabwe to pass the Mantle . Evidently losing but still clinging on to power typical African Leaders. It is a shame these old school are still clinging on to power some want to bounce back. Lets learn to respect the will of the people. To all you nallow minded Africans who think of going the Mugabe way think again. Stop blaming white people for your own mistakes. It's nothing personal just business and if most white or black people can step away from this black and white business and see people for what they are this world will be a better place.