Love and Marriage

Indeed love hurts, how many people have ever been in love? Love is a general word which i think passes through alot of peoples lips subconsciously. Saying It without actually meaning it, then there is true love uumm now this I think exit between one and their parents or one and their kids. I can not include among siblings because i have witnessed some sibling rivalry way out of control. To say a man and woman who were strangers can meet and form true love then i think it is pure fantasy just like father Christmas. Why? because love is conditional be it direct or indirect. The conditions are different from how much money you have, charisma, looks, status in the society, how good a father you are, manners be it good or bad etc... You might disagree but think about it before you and your partner got together there must be boxes both of you had to tick, you know minimum conditions. Another interesting thing is about these words {having something in common}. Can not stand these words because they remind me of back in the days when i used to be so shy, naive, clueless as far as women were concerned. These words were a stumbling block to my quest for the ladies. Girls used to say we have nothing in common bla bla bla.Then i remembered a lesson in physics not that i was good at it. That say opposites forces attract, that revolutionised my life. Most relationships that claim to have similar taste then it means one of them is pretending just to please the other or subconsciously following the other. That's why there are so many divorces out there because most people as life goes on gather up the courage to realise or rather admit they are different. This realisation or admission rocks the foundation upon which their marriages were bound. some relationship are rocked so hard they collapse others try to work it out through Marriage counselors. Compromise is what is needed. If you have the foresight to look and identify your differences and agree on compromises way before, One will not need to go through all the hustle.