Jealousy Is Like Cancer

Jealousy men and women is like cancer it eats you away piece by piece. If you are very jealousy i suggest you read a few words of wisdom from i and i Big will. Jealousy is useless If someone is gonna cheat they will anyway there is nothing you can do might as well not bother. Visited a relative the other day noticed the wife's phone was redirected to the husbands phone. Later that night there was a big fight between my relatives the husband and the wife If i did not step in they would have killed each other. Turns out the husband who happens to call himself a player and boy does he shag women, was suspecting that the wife was having an affair to the point of following the wife to work. According to the husband he saw the wife with another dude acting suspiciously and according to the wife that was a male colleague she used to work with and happen to be a friend. Who is wrong or right is beyond the scope of this post. The fact that pissed me most is the domestic violence displayed on this occasion. I hate domestic violence with a passion. To think of it this guy cheats all the time and gets caught all the time and expects to be forgiven. He say's he is a man and he is allowed but i disagree. Yet his wife was suspected to be cheating and he went ballistic loosing it, moving out of the house. I had to talk some sense into him to come back to his wife and children. Why oh why indeed why! all this jealousy brings nothing but misery before you start getting jealousy revive your relationship so that you reduce the likely hood of your partner cheating on you. Relationships should be competitive one should make it worthwhile for the other party to still be in the relationship. If you must cheat make sure they are better than your partner and never get caught. What one does not know does not hurt. In this day and age a woman or man cheating is just as bad or good depending on the way you look at it. Read the signs and do something before its too late.